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					Originally Posted by Gilda
					
				 Thank you for the clarification.
 abaya:  Yeah, analyzing text is what I do for a living also.  It's hard to turn it off, isn't it?
 
 Cynthetiq: I'd probably find that strange and a little off-putting.  I have exactly four people I talk to regularly to whom I'll say "I love you".  It comes easily to me when I love someone, but it isn't something I'll easily give away or expect outside of a very close bond.  I'm not criticizing, just sharing my own reaction.
 
 Gilda
 |  It was a little strange at first. This was almost a phenomenon after 9/11 here in NYC. Eventually it stopped. I still carry it because I realized just how dear my friendships were. Even now I realize that I don't do it as often as I used to, JustJess and Quadro don't hear it as often as they should. But those friendships that have remained tight via phone due to distance get it at the end of each call.
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