Update for everyone. The random guy is now out of the picture. Over the weekend, he screwed over his best friend(also a friend of my girlfriend) by kissing his SO and ended up getting beat to hell causing him to go into the hospital. He calls my girlfriend looking for sympathy and what not, and she basically told him that what he did was too fucked up and she cant trust him and that she doenst want anything to do with his problems right now. He starts getting all creepy acting like they are dating saying things like "But what about the special relationship we have" and "I need you in my life" and other very obssesive comments. Then he continues to tell her he likes her and that she is the most amazing person he has ever met and asked her if there was any chance for her to break up with me for him. She flat out told him never and that she doesn't want to have anything to do with him whatsoever anymore. She told him that he was creeping her out and that she has no trust or respect for him at all and she was done with him and that he was insane for thinking anything would happen between them.
I didnt even bring it up to her that I didnt want her hanging out with him anymore. I was actually surprised when she told me all of this and actually witnessed it happen. But at the end of the night, all I could do was laugh at her and tell her I told you so. I told her that he didnt want to just be her friend, but she didnt listen. I still laugh but I am so releved. Not because this guy is out of the picture, but because of how she handled it. She didnt continue to put herself in the situation after he told her he liked her. I not only respect her more now, but trust her more as well. But thank you for all the advice everyone, I really did take it into consideration before all of this happened.
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