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Originally Posted by Rodney
Sex is about having fun with one another, playing with one another, not being graded on whether you reach a certain goal or not. No wonder you're having trouble keeping it up; you're too worried about doing it right to enjoy it.
The missing ingredient is real affection. You and your ex were really close, and you were hard as a rock every time. As you say, everything happened naturally.
You want to perform well everytime, go to bed with women you care about and who cares about you. Because you know on those times that something goes "wrong --- " it won't matter a bit.
Some men can perform with any woman, known or unknown. You're not one of them. And in a way, you're lucky.
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Thing is I don't go into the experience worried. When I say I "focus" on pleasuring my partner, I mean just that. I don't ask myself, "Am I doing it right?" 'cause I know that I'm doing it right. I definitely think it's performance anxiety, but it's not because I'm constantly worried or anything; which is why the whole thing was such a surprise for me.
It doesn't matter anymore anyways. She was over last night and pretty much wasn't havin' it. My fear came true: The last time really was the last time. But that's life; I'm not really trippin' on that. Just a bit embarassing is all.
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The words "love" and "life" go together. It is almost as if they are one. You must love to live, and you must live to love, or you have never lived nor loved at all.
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Originally Posted by Zeraph
...the best way to keep a big secret would be to make it public with disinformation...
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