How often do you see your boyfriend? How did you meet him? You've been together for a number of years, but how many of those years were you actually together... in the same place at the same time?
I'm not sure why all that matters but it might help to understand him a little better.
You mentioned a business trip to the Phillipines, so I'm guessing you aren't from North America... Where's your boyfriend from, I'm wondering if his mindset is cultural... that women are supposed to behave a certain way, and you didn't.
You didn't do anything wrong, though I must say it wasn't the smartest thing for you to have a man in your hotel room, with a bottle of wine... Safety says, never do that. Your boyfriend, however, is overreacting, and accusing you of things that might have happened, rather than what actually did happen. You didn't lie, according to what you said, you didn't have to tell him anything but you did.
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