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savvypup · 06-15-2006, 03:31 AM

Oh god Nemi, I certainly wouldn't think of you as a cheater. I think some people tend to share only intimate talks with the person they're with. I don't think that way - but use to. We all need people to confide in and for myself, I find the opposite sex much easier to talk to.

You choosing to have discussions with someone outside your 'long' distant relationship is perfectly acceptable. Some talks are nicer to have face-2-face and just because the person you talked to was a guy, why is this classed as cheating. The feelings you have for this person are also perfectly normal. Who wouldn't be attracted to someone who you can be open with. And like you said, it was just talking. Just because wine was present, doesn't mean it was heading anywhere. Outside excitment is good, but you didn't act on anything and so I don't think you overstepped any boundaries. Don't feel guilty!

06-15-2006, 03:31 AM	#2 (permalink)
savvypup Crazy Location: Want to run away? Follow the light	Oh god Nemi, I certainly wouldn't think of you as a cheater. I think some people tend to share only intimate talks with the person they're with. I don't think that way - but use to. We all need people to confide in and for myself, I find the opposite sex much easier to talk to. You choosing to have discussions with someone outside your 'long' distant relationship is perfectly acceptable. Some talks are nicer to have face-2-face and just because the person you talked to was a guy, why is this classed as cheating. The feelings you have for this person are also perfectly normal. Who wouldn't be attracted to someone who you can be open with. And like you said, it was just talking. Just because wine was present, doesn't mean it was heading anywhere. Outside excitment is good, but you didn't act on anything and so I don't think you overstepped any boundaries. Don't feel guilty! __________________ ciao bella!