It is healthy to spend time apart. My girlfriend, April, and I have had talks about this. We see some couples out and they are basically referred to in the same breath like BobandSara rather than Bob and Sara. We want to be recognized as a great couple that love one another but we also want people to recognize that we are each a great person on our own.
In general I think time apart comes naturally and in most cases is just understood (at least in my experience but not always). Couples will go through stages of spending every waking hour versus having more time apart and obviously whether or not you live together plays into this also.
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