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Originally Posted by Gilda
If you don't want to spend all of your time with the person you love, that's not necessarily a bad thing. But if you don't want to spend a lot of time with that person, that may be an indication that the relationship isn't quite as strong as it could be, and maybe this isn't the right person with whom to be making long term plans.
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Said beautifully and concisely.
I share some things with Gilda, here... needing a bit less time "away" from ktspktsp than he does from me. This is occasionally difficult for me, due to past issues that I am working on, but we continue to grow
and learn to be more patient with each other.
And yes, despite our different needs for space, we pretty much love spending time together.
I think that once the long-distance chapter of our relationship is over (often what causes me the most grief), I'll grow back into really needing my own, regular space, and we'll balance out.