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It looks to me like you are being "used." Played like a cheap rented accordian is right. The question to ask is not "Why does she do whatever it is that she is doing?" The question to as yourself is "What am I doing in a relationship with a person who treats me like this?"
This battle is not worth fighting. You don't gain anything WORTHWHILE even if you win. Cut your losses by moving on now. At this point, you don't even owe her an explanation. That just let's her keep you on the string. Four months out of the life of a person your age is nothing.
Next time, get to know someone a little better before getting so deeply involved. That makes it easier to avoid the losers/users and end up in a healthy relationship.
Lindy
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