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Thank you, each one of you, for the tremendous support. It means so much to me.
Yes, I do feel like a doormat. My ex also comes late to his visitations and brings my son back late...he does things and doesn't consult me first.
But for holidays, we arranged it that we alternate days. For example, I have the first day, he has the seconds, and so forth.
He sees him twice a week.
I told him last time he took his son that he can't take him unless he lets me know where he's taking him (a lwayer friend told me that but said that if I do that I'd have to be willing to put up with the consequences because he might take me to court and I'd have to get an attorney to defend myself and state the reasons, etc.). When I told my ex about not taking him if he won't tell me where he's going, he said "well, take him" and by that time my son was already with him and he just drove off with him without even giving me a chance to take him! I felt so defeated.
My son is still not in the stage where he can answer questions...he has just begun to say two words togather and I feel that he doesn't remember things unless they are happening in the present. I tried to let him tell me but he just won't answer and doesn't really comprehend. He tell me that "he went in his father's car"..that's all he tells me and when I ask him "and then where did you go?" He states that he went back home (he means in my home). That's all he remembers,lol.
Thanks so much for the support, Nikki, Raeanna, Suzz, Mal, Willravel, shakran, cookmo, ngdawg, sapiens, temp user, (hope I didn't miss anyone) and everyone else who has helped. You're all awesome. Thanks.
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