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Originally Posted by hundove
Hey all,
Thanks for the wonderful help. I really appreciate it.
It's been almost a year since the separation and my son sees his father twice a week, one time for 5 hours and another time for 7 hours.
Maleficent, you were right for pointing this out. I usually let my parents deal with my ex b/c I don't want to see him and he doesn't want to see me either. So, that's why I put the "we",lol...yeah, I feel like he's MY son only, lol...because he's not a very good father figure and I don't want to feel that there's something we both share,lol.
As for his eating habits, I don't even know what he eats with his father. If he develops food poisoning, I won't even know the reason 
Thanks so much, each one of you, for all the support and concern |
This entire post is hostile. "Not a very good father figure". Well, he wasn't a good mate, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love and enjoy his son. It took both of you to make this kid. Face it, you HAVE to share him. Your selfishness will only do a disservice to the boy.
"I don't even know what he eats with his father." That's 12 hours. I suggested YOU keep a diary, assuming you do feed him the other times.
You project a lot of anger toward this man and selfishness, admittedly, about your son, then ask why he throws tantrums....I think you have your answer.