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Originally Posted by Lady Sage
As you get older you'll discover that some nights you just cant orgasm either. This is not anything to be ashamed of, it just happens from time to time. Ms. Mal is right, its no big deal as long as you know how to satisfy her in other ways. Nisses made a very valid point as well, try it without the green stuff. Best of luck.
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I have to agree with my better half here. There are nights when I can pump and pump for an hour and I won't orgasm. She eventually gets over the thrill and it starts hurting her so I stop.
Not enough can be said for foreplay..... a good finger massage in the right spot on the lady, a nice bit of oral action and let her cum first, then do your thing. If you go soft or can't orgasm, it's ok, she had hers and IMHO pleasing the other partner is far more satisfying to me.
There will be nights when she may not want to, and I do and she can't orgasm and I pop fast. But we both enjoyed it and she gave me the oppurtunity to.
True love making is sharing, caring and pleasing..... making your partner feel that he/she is the most important person in your life. When you do that..... you realize that SEX is just an act, but love making is far better, more rewarding and builds your confidence in ways just the act never can.