Im kind of curious how long you two have been divorced. How often your boy see's his son.
how long were you and your ex together?
what age are you and your ex?
really without knowing the whole story we can all only speculate. I don't think anything is too out of the norm.
I am no parent, far from it...
Of course you son loves his G-pa, in his mind (guessing) that is like his father. a male figure in his life that he can look up to.
Is this incident typical or was this just one incident?
In my opinion if this was just an isolated exp. your child was just having fun playing, and didnt want to quit and change into new clothes.
My ex gf, was a nanny of a 4 and 7 yr old. the 4 yr old boy, would get into spurts where he would argue and fight over changing his clothes. He would want to wear the same thing for mulitple days. (not that the clothes are the main thing here)
IMHO see if this happens, if he is having fun playing outside, call him in and have him come in to change and goto the store with you. see how he reacts.
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