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dawnoffawn · 06-08-2006, 04:06 PM

Hey all,
Thanks for the wonderful advice.
Thanks so much Willravel for the help and concern.
As for bruises, my son always gets bruised b/c he's so active so he has alot of marks on his hands and elbows because he's always running and tripping, so I can't really tell if it's a normal mark all kids get or a form of abuse, but I don't think that he'd abuse him. I think it's more a case of neglect and also emotional abuse or that my son feels abandoned..I don't even think he's free for him..I think he does all his errands at the time he takes my son, because many people spot my son with him (some of his customers, etc.).
His father is a stranger to him..he doesn't act with him as he does with me or his grandparents.

As for the time we were together, my ex did show fury, and he did hit me once in front of him but that was a long time ago. Think he still recalls that incident?
I do recall him once throwing stuff but it wasn't habitual or alot.
But he never hit his son around me.

Thanks, shakran, for the help and concern.
At this time, I really cannot aford a lawyer and i've had bad experiences with them. Also, I'm afraid my ex will seek revenge and try to show the exact opposite b/c he's done that alot of times. whenever we accuse or ocmplain to him of something, he starts accusing us and saying in his own words that "I will treat you the same way and hurt you" and even though we have nothing that can be seen against us, I'm not up for being "watched and observed"...it will be too defeatful for me since I already feel like I lost in this terrible divorce.

Thanks so much Maleficent, for all your help.
In my custody agreement it says that both parties have the right to know about the whereabouts of the child, but it wasn't specific enough.

My son always comes clean from his father, but it seems he's been sleeping all this time (remember my post about him sleeping when he feels abandoned?) because he stays up really late the days he comes back from his father, sometimes at 2:00 am or more.

Thanks again all.

06-08-2006, 04:06 PM	#7 (permalink)
dawnoffawn Crazy	Hey all, Thanks for the wonderful advice. Thanks so much Willravel for the help and concern. As for bruises, my son always gets bruised b/c he's so active so he has alot of marks on his hands and elbows because he's always running and tripping, so I can't really tell if it's a normal mark all kids get or a form of abuse, but I don't think that he'd abuse him. I think it's more a case of neglect and also emotional abuse or that my son feels abandoned..I don't even think he's free for him..I think he does all his errands at the time he takes my son, because many people spot my son with him (some of his customers, etc.). His father is a stranger to him..he doesn't act with him as he does with me or his grandparents. As for the time we were together, my ex did show fury, and he did hit me once in front of him but that was a long time ago. Think he still recalls that incident? I do recall him once throwing stuff but it wasn't habitual or alot. But he never hit his son around me. Thanks, shakran, for the help and concern. At this time, I really cannot aford a lawyer and i've had bad experiences with them. Also, I'm afraid my ex will seek revenge and try to show the exact opposite b/c he's done that alot of times. whenever we accuse or ocmplain to him of something, he starts accusing us and saying in his own words that "I will treat you the same way and hurt you" and even though we have nothing that can be seen against us, I'm not up for being "watched and observed"...it will be too defeatful for me since I already feel like I lost in this terrible divorce. Thanks so much Maleficent, for all your help. In my custody agreement it says that both parties have the right to know about the whereabouts of the child, but it wasn't specific enough. My son always comes clean from his father, but it seems he's been sleeping all this time (remember my post about him sleeping when he feels abandoned?) because he stays up really late the days he comes back from his father, sometimes at 2:00 am or more. Thanks again all.