So....IBS, Diabetes... the eating disorder is because of the IBS.. the IBS can be treated.. and so can the diabetes.. It takes work... but it can be done.. Looks like the biggies are now the depression and suicidal thoughts... also can be treated with meds... but.. wow..what a combo... Is she taking meds for all of these? All those meds put together I can see why shes having problems... Has she even tried medication? But she's not dying... like she's said... that comment is probably a depression/suicidal thing... Thats going to be rough to deal with on your part... I'm not telling you to run... but definetly consider that working on a relationship with depression and suicidal issues is going to be significantly harder... If you do decide to leave her.. be careful because she may become slightly more suicidal... If you stay.. be sure its what you want.. and that you'll be able to deal with this in the long run...
I've been in a relationship with both women with depression issues and suicidal issues.. Its not easy... Again.. just make sure your willing to change your life for her.. and even more... Make sure she wants you around for all this..... good luck...
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