maleficent

I'm hoping that the suggestions of raping him are jokes...

there's more than one thread in this forum where the genders are reversed... where the male has the higher sex drive than the female... I'd love to see the reactions of the peanut gallery if anyone suggested raping her to get her in the mood.

Sexual compatibilty can be an issue in a relationship, and hopefully it's found out before there are children in the picture, it sounds like it's been an issue since day one in this relationship. If not then, a person has to decide how important it really is to them if everything else is just hunky dory.

If just talking to him isn't working, i'd suggest perhaps that the right questions aren't being asked, or the answers aren't being made clear, and perhaps some couples therapy might be in order, at least to give some middle ground where you both can be happy.

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