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STEPHY · 06-05-2006, 08:37 AM

hey ladies,

I am new on the forum but I have been reading almost all day and you gals seem to give very good advice.
sooo.....

I was friends with this guy for about 2 mths, we started to date, well my so called best friend(she isn't anymore) was talking mad crap about me. I read the logs he had from their im's. So I know it was tru. Well he stopped communication with me totally. But after about a month he called me and we talked about everything and realized what was going on. So we started hanging out again. About 3 months later we started dating agian this time we moved into a relationship about 2 months after dating. Everything was going great, he started working alot cause it was his busy season at work. I totally understand that and didn't preasure him when he cancelled or said he was really tired. I knew his job was a busy and it always took alot out of him. He was telling me how happy I make him and that we were meant to be etc..

Then I start feeling like something is missing, I couldn't put my finger on it. But something definitly changed. One sunday I went to his house to pick up some money he owed me from the carton of cigs I bought him and he said we need to talk..(god i hate that) but he said that he dosen't feel it, he honestly tried and he says it just feels like we are best friends, well I agreed to a point and said yes I was feeling like something has changed also.

We hang out like we use too and it is fine with me, my issue is that I still think we have a connection. And I know you can't make someone like you. But for some odd reason something wont let me let go. I am friends with all my ex boyfriends. But this one is different.

What should I do????

06-05-2006, 08:37 AM	#1 (permalink)
STEPHY Upright Location: FLORIDA, USA	men...why do they flip flop? hey ladies, I am new on the forum but I have been reading almost all day and you gals seem to give very good advice. sooo..... I was friends with this guy for about 2 mths, we started to date, well my so called best friend(she isn't anymore) was talking mad crap about me. I read the logs he had from their im's. So I know it was tru. Well he stopped communication with me totally. But after about a month he called me and we talked about everything and realized what was going on. So we started hanging out again. About 3 months later we started dating agian this time we moved into a relationship about 2 months after dating. Everything was going great, he started working alot cause it was his busy season at work. I totally understand that and didn't preasure him when he cancelled or said he was really tired. I knew his job was a busy and it always took alot out of him. He was telling me how happy I make him and that we were meant to be etc.. Then I start feeling like something is missing, I couldn't put my finger on it. But something definitly changed. One sunday I went to his house to pick up some money he owed me from the carton of cigs I bought him and he said we need to talk..(god i hate that) but he said that he dosen't feel it, he honestly tried and he says it just feels like we are best friends, well I agreed to a point and said yes I was feeling like something has changed also. We hang out like we use too and it is fine with me, my issue is that I still think we have a connection. And I know you can't make someone like you. But for some odd reason something wont let me let go. I am friends with all my ex boyfriends. But this one is different. What should I do????