I have a friend who was like that, he wasn't as interested, and she was all the time. We used to joke that we should switch partners. Not sure what became of their situation after they had a child or two. It wasn't that he didn't think about sex (like most men), when the time came, he just had other thoughts that curbed his desire.
In my relationship, my wife has never had a strong drive, and for a while, she was using a steroid cream to help her get going. Now that she was turned 35/36, she is very much in the mood for 3 weeks every month, and one of them is when flow is around. I take what I can get, although she is just now becoming adventurous. Last night for instance, when we left the tanning salon (she tans), she wanted to go somewhere, and we found our favorite parking spot and had some serious fun. She even took her clothes off in the car while I was driving to show how much she wanted sex. Now that was totally not like her!!
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