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Originally Posted by maleficent
there's also a school of thought that says some men have a hard time seeing their wives as sexual beings after they've had a child... (that whole Madonna/Whore complex)
Has he been like this since day one? Or did his interest in intercourse decrease after the children?
What's he said when you have talked to him about it?
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He's been like this since I met him. He used to say he was just a prude - and wasn't really interested. He also used to say he never looked at porn. I, being naieve, believed him. I also want to note, though it may not hold any merit - He is the only partner I've ever had. He has has one other before me that I know of. When I talk with him (and we have talked about this alot, especially this last year) he says he's just not really interested in sex most of the time. Sometimes he jokeningly, though I'm not so sure he's really joking, that it's just too much work.
I , like many of you, believe there is more too it than not being interested. He mastrubates often..so obviously he needs that relese..weather that release has anything to do with sex or not is mystery to me.