I agree with the past few posts. Since you mentioned that he is masturbating regularily, I don't think the issue is that he doesn't have/has a lower sex drive. The issue is that he's not having sex with you. The only way to find out why is to talk to him. Mal's idea is a very strong possibility I think. Either way, the answer here isn't lowering your sex drive or increasing his, but finding out what's at the root of the problem. I hope you're able to talk about this and solve things. 
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