Originally Posted by Stonnyen

I have a question 'n such


I have a problem wich i have encountered. or a thought in my head wich is less suitable in most situasions.

When i have sex. I, in my head absolutely adore the lady i am with, but afterwards I feel mostly tired of her, and not interested in her in any sexual way. I feel almost disquested of her for a given period of time (10min to 2hours, or so) . I am kinda scared of this thought. i kinda feel like the person i am lying next to is damaged goods.

This is something i can recognize when i'm masturbating also, when i use my fantasy to find a moment, or an idea of something wich is arousing i get really turned on, on the thought. But afterwards i feel really turned off by that thought.


I have never been in a real relationship and my sexual affairs does not last for long at a time. tops a coupple of months.





So i wonder, does anybody have something to say about this, and what is wrong with me? .. or is this something other ppl also feel?