I don't even know where to begin...
Last night, hubby dearest, the friend, her husband and I all went back to the strip club. Now, I guess I could/should have clued in to this earlier, but the affection is most definitely mutual. We had a semi-private booth this time and uh... it didn't take long to get comfortable!
The strippers were much more plasticy than last night, so no one was inclined to get up and tip quite as often. The booth arrangement was much more flexible than some random chairs out on the floor.
I was on her lap or my husband's lap a good bit of the time (and beside her on the bench for the rest). Everything below the waist stayed on, at least until we got back to our house, but not for their lack of trying!
I kept sneaking glances at both of the boys to make sure neither were visibly protesting or disturbed in a bad way, but they didn't seem bothered at all. We attracted a few onlookers in the section surrounding us, one of whom moved halfway across the floor to get a better view of us- our little show was MUCH more intriguing than the mostly plastic strippers.
Things got much more interesting when we got home. The boys ended p on the couch with us on their laps and, well, we weren't speaking in complete sentences after that. Everyone's shirts came off, and in the course of things my undies ended up in my hubby's pocket as well. The boys had their hands all over my friend and me but otherwise let us do our thing.
Somehow, we spent 2 hours back at our house before we thought to look at a clock (conveniently, it was 4:20am on the nose). We slowly got dressed after that and they headed home shortly before 5.
It was... a lot of fun. This was the first time (since my first experimentations a long time ago) I've really had the chance to fool around with another girl and act on some of those thoughts in the back of my head. I'm glad our husbands were there this first time, I feel much more comfortable fooling around with her now that I've seen (and heard) them approve. There was alcohol involved initially, but my buzz wore off and my motivation was still very much there. I wasn't sure how I would do at first with her hubby in the picture, but it worked well. More than anything, I was worried about how my hubby would react to that (given his previous statement that he isn't okay with me being with another guy), but when he didn't seem to mind a few roaming hands I relaxed considerably.
We did not all sit down and have that big talk before going out last night. She talked to her hubby before anything started and got the go ahead for the night, but for some reason we didn't have the big discussion. Her hubby seemed to be really enjoying himself the whole time. We should be meeting up tonight to discuss the situation sans alcohol, and dammit this time if no one else says anything then I will! I'm having a lot of fun, but our relationships come first and I don't want to overstep any boundaries or put anything in jeopardy.
Of course also now that her hubby has seen me topless and damn near bottomless I'm not feeling quite so bashful about bringing this up as before... haha, talk about an icebreaker! My hubby is warming to the idea of a foursome... I think he enjoyed watching me fooling around with the girl I've been lusting after for a while in a different way than he expected. Again, we still need to have that talk, just to have all of this out in the open... but even now there are intriguing developments afoot!
Next time: no strip club. Along with the alcohol, helpful social lubrication... but way too pricey when all any of us are interested is available without the $10 drinks and 20-minute drive.