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Get a lawyer.
move out.
have a bonfire with the photos.
keep yourself busy.
keep away from alcohol.
don't go to counseling. Don't give it a second chance unless she initiates it.
Feel free to hate her.
Feel free to want to beat the crap out of him.
Let yourself feel whatever you're feeling.
Go to work every day.
Reach out and find male buddies.
Arrange a poker night.
Do something you never thought you'd do (bungee jumping, skydiving, extreme ironing, etc)
and just remember we all care about you.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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