Wow. I could be reading my own thread. Except mine's been an on-again, off-again relationship for two years. He's my only and I love having sex with him. I get a lot of pleasure from the intimacy and physical contact. But no orgasm. I'm completely fine with it, but we used to argue about it and now we just don't talk about it. I had to tell him that if I didn't enjoy sex with him, I wouldn't initiate it and I wouldn't still be here. That kinda shut him up, but I know that it still bothers him. My g-spot is non-existant and I've never been able to have an orgasm by myself without clitoral stimulation/focus. Talk to him about it. Keep an open line of communication and remind him what you do feel... emotionally and physically. And practice is always fun.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand
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