I believe attraction is defined by how you react to and around a person.
I find that a person's personality speaks volumes to find a person attractive. When I first met Xavion, I thought wow what a good looking man. But that would have been all it was, just eye candy.
But then he spoke to me, and I melted. His voice was relaxing and calm and then I got to know him.
I can say that I began to find him utterly him irresistable, but that is based on his personality.
But without talking to him in depth, I wouldn't of had even considered him more than just eye candy.
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"With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion."
- Steven Weinberg
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