62ford

Hey, if you are here then hopefully you read the first part of this whole situation. Well, i did confront my wife yesterday, and the truth all came out. Unfortunately the truth was that she is seeing someone else. Although i did have an idea that she was, but i was really wanting to give her the benefit of the doubt. She says that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to hurt me. But, there went that idea. She says that i wasnt giving her what she wanted. That she met this guy when she was out one day, and that he provides that "love" that i wasnt giving her. Should i be kicking myself in the ass for failing to love her the "right way", or should i just move on. The large part of me is hateing her right now. The problem i have is that we have such a big history, aside from being my wife she has been my best friend. I was wondering, for those who have been through this, how do you move on without that person in your life? It is a good thing we dont have kids, but i am good friends with her family, i have been the uncle to her neice and nephew, which we babysat all of the time. So, losing all of that stuff as well as losing her, really is killing me right now. I am not really wanting to try to make anything work at this point, i just need advice on moving on. Also, how the hell do i keep my mind off of her and her "new man". All i can think about is that instead of being home with me like usual, she is in bed with this other guy, who i just want to strangle. Anyway, any and all advice is welcomed. Thank you again.