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Originally Posted by lindalove
I'm kind of worried, because I didn't really want to spoil a nice friendship, but I didn't want to accept the ring and make him feel ask if I might change my mind one day.
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This is the key right here; for the sake of the guy, maybe your "nice friendship" needed to be spoiled. A ring from a supposedly platonic friendship would pretty much cause me to doubt the entire friendship... because that's just weird (unless I was like Mal or Shanifaye, but I'm pretty sure they were in 100% platonic situations).
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Originally Posted by Zeraph
If one of two people is in love or even just in lust with the other they cannot be true friends. It just can't happen when one will always have a different agenda.
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Zeraph said it best. I've been there, on both sides of the equation, and it just doesn't work. I hope this ring situation served as a reality check to the guy.