I am in control, and yet, not in control. I blame, or explain, a lot of me now by my past, as I believe how you were raised affects you now. By denying your past had a part in your present, you're saying that there is no such thing as environmental effects.
That's not to say one should dwell, and I do tend to do a lot of that. I suffer from a lack of self-esteem (which leads to things like eating disorders), BUT I am in control of that.
All that being said- I have very little control of my feelings, but I do have more control than say, the husband screaming at his wife or the psycho that shoots up an entire school. Not saying much, eh?
Last edited by la petite moi; 05-22-2006 at 11:17 PM..
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