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Attraction-
the first thing i notice about a man is his hands. no idea why they grab my attention so quickly. Muscular, caloused, rough, slim, or soft... doesn't matter. If their hands are interesting, they have a story to tell. Current SO - has crooked pinky fingers that are extra short. His brother has them, too. It's genetic, but they joke that their older brothers did it to them. Guy from Anthropology class that won a crush for a semester - was from an upper-middle class family, yet had super rough muscular hands. Turns out he had been working as a box boy at Costco for the past several years to save for drugs and college. Theatre techie fling - super soft, muscular hands but they were still slender, not chunky like most manly men. Turns out he was a closet gay.
I pay far too much attention to the freakish little things. like hands.
Anyhew... I'm attracted to someone who has a story to tell. My sister often tells me that she doesn't find my favorites attractive in the slightest. I'm not a fan of a pretty-boy face. It's all about the masculinity. It's difficult these days to find masculinity without misogyny.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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