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lullay · 05-21-2006, 05:07 PM

Daniel_ - My husband tells me he was grinning while watching us. The last time my friend and I discussed relationships she said theirs was open, but that was last year and we both were pretty tipsy during the conversation. I guess as is obvious, we haven't ever discussed this while fully sober.

Thanks all for your replies, they are helping me see this in a different light.

I guess I posted my question because I have NO idea how to take this further. I mean, yes, I can see how the answer would seem obvious but I've never tried to decipher girls before, and I've never been stumped as to whether or not or how I should proceed in such a situation (I asked my now-husband out on our first date, and don't remember being half so worried/curious as I feel now).

Also, she talks about her past exploits like she was rather agressive in pursuing the ones she really liked. She acts flirty towards everyone, but has never made any kind of first move towards me. I mean, we've slept in the same bed while staying the night at her parents house (in the last 6 months) and it wasn't tense or remotely sexual at all. Some girls just want to be chased, and this may well be the case. I'm probably overanalyzing this whole situation, but like I said... I've never really done this before.

05-21-2006, 05:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
lullay Upright Location: Austin, TX	Daniel_ - My husband tells me he was grinning while watching us. The last time my friend and I discussed relationships she said theirs was open, but that was last year and we both were pretty tipsy during the conversation. I guess as is obvious, we haven't ever discussed this while fully sober. Thanks all for your replies, they are helping me see this in a different light. I guess I posted my question because I have NO idea how to take this further. I mean, yes, I can see how the answer would seem obvious but I've never tried to decipher girls before, and I've never been stumped as to whether or not or how I should proceed in such a situation (I asked my now-husband out on our first date, and don't remember being half so worried/curious as I feel now). Also, she talks about her past exploits like she was rather agressive in pursuing the ones she really liked. She acts flirty towards everyone, but has never made any kind of first move towards me. I mean, we've slept in the same bed while staying the night at her parents house (in the last 6 months) and it wasn't tense or remotely sexual at all. Some girls just want to be chased, and this may well be the case. I'm probably overanalyzing this whole situation, but like I said... I've never really done this before.