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lullay · 05-21-2006, 01:26 AM

I have a rediculous crush on a (female) friend of mine. Tonight, while we were (drinking and) at a strip club with our husbands, we had a fantastic time. Afterwards, we all headed back to my house to sober up a bit before heading our separate ways. Right before she and her husband left, I asked if she still wanted to do what we talked about earlier-- she (either genuinely confused or acting shy) asked what, and I whispered in her ear that we had half-jokingly talked about kissing earlier and how (ostensibly) our dear husbands would enjoy it. Again, I have a rediculous crush on her and I don't know how transparent this is. She asked if I wanted to, I asked if she wanted to, we waffled, then she said something about me putting her on the spot and that she wished I had just gone ahead and done it. I took that as a go-ahead and said that I thought I could do that... and then kissed her. I pulled back, then she started kissing me back.

I was caught up in the moment and the kiss, so while my husband tells me she touched my face and kissed me back and that it was very hot I only recall what the kiss was like. It was good. Certainly stimulating.

So, my question is... should I pursue this at all My husband has given me the go-ahead to pretty much do anything with her, and I would jump at the chance given the opportunity (she's clean, disease-free, monogamous with unexercised [as of yet] options) but I don't know how to go about this. My husband has also told me that she says I'm hot and such (in so many words) somewhat often, and I also know that she is very much bi but I've never initiated something with a girl, let alone one I'm friends with in a non-sexual context.

My hubby wants to do a pinup photoshoot as a sort-of pretext to more... fun, I suppose you could say. She's a fan of pin-ups in general and again, seems very favoraby disposed towards all of the sorts of things that I'm into (we've had some conversations). We haven't said anything to her as of yet. Since I kissed her I am having a difficult time not thinking about how enjoyable it was, and I would love to pursue this further... but I have no idea what to do, or how to go about it.

Any input is appreciated.

05-21-2006, 01:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
lullay Upright Location: Austin, TX	So I have this friend... I have a rediculous crush on a (female) friend of mine. Tonight, while we were (drinking and) at a strip club with our husbands, we had a fantastic time. Afterwards, we all headed back to my house to sober up a bit before heading our separate ways. Right before she and her husband left, I asked if she still wanted to do what we talked about earlier-- she (either genuinely confused or acting shy) asked what, and I whispered in her ear that we had half-jokingly talked about kissing earlier and how (ostensibly) our dear husbands would enjoy it. Again, I have a rediculous crush on her and I don't know how transparent this is. She asked if I wanted to, I asked if she wanted to, we waffled, then she said something about me putting her on the spot and that she wished I had just gone ahead and done it. I took that as a go-ahead and said that I thought I could do that... and then kissed her. I pulled back, then she started kissing me back. I was caught up in the moment and the kiss, so while my husband tells me she touched my face and kissed me back and that it was very hot I only recall what the kiss was like. It was good. Certainly stimulating. So, my question is... should I pursue this at all My husband has given me the go-ahead to pretty much do anything with her, and I would jump at the chance given the opportunity (she's clean, disease-free, monogamous with unexercised [as of yet] options) but I don't know how to go about this. My husband has also told me that she says I'm hot and such (in so many words) somewhat often, and I also know that she is very much bi but I've never initiated something with a girl, let alone one I'm friends with in a non-sexual context. My hubby wants to do a pinup photoshoot as a sort-of pretext to more... fun, I suppose you could say. She's a fan of pin-ups in general and again, seems very favoraby disposed towards all of the sorts of things that I'm into (we've had some conversations). We haven't said anything to her as of yet. Since I kissed her I am having a difficult time not thinking about how enjoyable it was, and I would love to pursue this further... but I have no idea what to do, or how to go about it. Any input is appreciated.