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There are times, when we must accept that the happiness of someone we care about needs to be foremost on the agenda. Its also important to consider the results of our descisions when doing something that can be painful to a significant other. If she is important to you, then something important to HER should not be brushed off, or avoided simply because you might not have a great time.
Change the mindset you have from one of "This is Gonna Suck"...to..."Who Knows...this could be a blast", and then make her happy. Brownie points are an important aspect to any relationship, earn 'em while you can.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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