Something must have bought about the "straying" in the first place? Was it a one off thing or was it have been something serious? Is the other person still in the picture? Have there been others since you seperated? These are all things you have to consider when you are trying to sort out your future. You shouldn't flay yourself over this..it happened, it's done, you can't take it back. You have to decide what's best for you now, the true friends will stick by you. If you and your husband decide to give it another go you just have to be careful that it's for the right reasons otherwise it could get very messy later! He has to do what's right for him and you have to do whats right for you first and foremost...even if that means letting him go. As for your daughter, this is a modern world and like it or not single parents are very much the norm, and not the pariahs of recent years...you can't be there for her if your not in the right place.
|