that is a hard one. just last weekend i said i'd go with my gf to see her parents out of town and i missed out a few parties and other important things. i couldnt get out because it's my gf plus i wanted to go but ya know... so i didnt ahve to look for an excuse but if i did, i'd be honest.
in your situation, can't you just tell your girlfriend to tell everyone else that you're sick or something else? or is telling your gf a problem? i dont think you should lie to her but to the other ppl, it shouldnt be a problem. thats how i feel about it.
good luck with all this!
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