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Old 05-19-2006, 02:28 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Toaster126
Having strong emotional responses removes or hinders the ability to use logic and reasoning to guide your actions. That is "bad".
I have to point out, Toaster, that these statements are also opinions, not facts.

For my part, I do not think having strong emotional responses *in themselves* remove or hinder the ability to use logic and reasoning to guide one's actions. I think they *often* do, but that's correlation, not causation.

I think having emotional responses is not a value-laden experience, in itself. I do think that if one is unable to take one's emotional temperature, realize it's a bit too high for level-headed negotiation, and employ a self-soothing mechanism to take one's emotions down a level... well yeah, that is "bad" for negotiation. But feeling them in the first place does not somehow make a person stupid or incapable of making a good decision.

/just your friendly INFPer's personal opinions.
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