Sharing sex fantasies with another when you're married is a form of cheating;cybering definitely is. The two are different but not mutually exclusive. And it's a different animal than sharing like girlfriends.
If he's been lying (and apparently is very poor at it if you've caught the lies), it's time for a serious sit-down. There's no need to be accusatory-he already knows what he's doing. But you do need to know what's going on in his head and where are you in all this?
If you really are having trouble accepting his activities, the old question comes to play: Are you better off with him or without him....then act accordingly.
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