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"And he told me that i make it seem like a chore b/c i ask rather than do anything. "
That's the truth. I hate being asked "Do you want to..?" What that means to me is, stop what your doing, walk me upstairs, undress me, turn off the lights, turn me on, and lay me. For some reason saying it doesn't really sound that bad....but at the time, it seems like a chore cause I'm thinking "I'm here, your there - your obviously in the mood - do I have to tell you how to get me in the mood?" (The answer to that is obvious, but I'm not gonna tell you and offend, so..."I'm just not in the mood right now" comes out).
Just a couple seconds to SHOW me your interested and I'm in, you're not gonna have to work for that long. Kind of like, if you want to have sex and that's the most effort your gonna put in to letting me know - I know I have a job to do. Just doesn't sound that fun.
Sorry - but that line struck a chord with me.
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