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BigBen · 05-15-2006, 07:21 AM

Tough one.

2 years is a long time, and I think the honeymoon might be over.

Yes, always initiating sex is a drag, to the point that I just give up. 'Why is it always me that starts things? Maybe she doesn't want me, she is just choosing the path of least resistance'

Living at the folk's place is a definite turn-off. I can't get busy when the family is around. Just doesn't work for me. I have no other advice on that one other than move out, and that is not always possible.

Hey, this is the Tilted Forum Project, so any thread has to include the line "Communicate with your partner about how you are feeling." But let's get past that. Make sure you talk to him about this, but let's see what else the ol' thinker can come up with...

I like the idea about wearing something sexy all day and then surprise him and tell him "I wore these stockings all day because I was thinking about you this morning. I know they turn you on, and that turns me on..." That is hot. Uber-hot. Letting him know that you were obsessed about him (physically) all day is an excellent idea.

Spontaneous and fast sex is the key here. If you have 4 minutes of alone time between him getting home and the folks coming home, jump his bones. The fast ones are good. And if he is tired (like you said) it is better than a marathon session.

05-15-2006, 07:21 AM	#3 (permalink)
BigBen Comedian Location: Use the search button	Tough one. 2 years is a long time, and I think the honeymoon might be over. Yes, always initiating sex is a drag, to the point that I just give up. 'Why is it always me that starts things? Maybe she doesn't want me, she is just choosing the path of least resistance' Living at the folk's place is a definite turn-off. I can't get busy when the family is around. Just doesn't work for me. I have no other advice on that one other than move out, and that is not always possible. Hey, this is the Tilted Forum Project, so any thread has to include the line "Communicate with your partner about how you are feeling." But let's get past that. Make sure you talk to him about this, but let's see what else the ol' thinker can come up with... I like the idea about wearing something sexy all day and then surprise him and tell him "I wore these stockings all day because I was thinking about you this morning. I know they turn you on, and that turns me on..." That is hot. Uber-hot. Letting him know that you were obsessed about him (physically) all day is an excellent idea. Spontaneous and fast sex is the key here. If you have 4 minutes of alone time between him getting home and the folks coming home, jump his bones. The fast ones are good. And if he is tired (like you said) it is better than a marathon session. __________________ 3.141592654 Hey, if you are impressed with my memorizing pi to 10 digits, you should see the size of my penis.