maleficent

Put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes for one minute... How woudl you feel if you were the one that always made the first move? that always initiated? Frustrated? Bored? Annoyed? Not worth the effort? Relationships involve TWO people-- you are one of those two people... Sex involves two people... you are one of those two people - you have to make the effort.

You seem like you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, why not make the first move? DO you think he'll reject you? Why uncomfortable?

Small stuff I'm sure will go along way... Give him a back rub... surprise him by wearing something that you feel sexy in when he comes in the door from work... Leave him a frisky message on his cell phone voice mail... Stop waiting for him to come to you... stop asking and just do it -- figure out a night where the rest of the family will be out... and just do something...

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