Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. And the past few months we haven't really had a sex life. Reasons ranging from him living at home and feeling like someone's going to walk in to him being tired. And he told me that i make it seem like a chore b/c i ask rather than do anything. idk. I want to have sex always but I don't really make any moves because I feel uncomfortable. I have had a crappy past and am really self concious. Partially it is my fault because of that but i get nervous. so now i am asking for advice because it's causing fights between us because i feel like he doesn't ever want me. I know he loves me and he says he wants me but he told me last night that he hasn't been turned on lately b/c i don't make any moves. and i know the saying actions speak louder than words. I know he's attracted to me b/c he makes me feel great about myself all of the time. him saying he hasn't been turned on of course offended me completely b.c i feel he should be turned on by just looking at me. also i am very sensitive. i consider myself to be a pretty girl. and now i am realizing that him just looking at me and wanting was only true during the beginning of our relationship. so any advice on things i could do that won't make me feel like too much of an ass?? help...
