That same passage bothers me but for different reasons...I wouldn't leave my child with ANYONE who isn't adult enough to have a conversation about the well being of the child, period. I don't care what the law says, or what the consequences may be, I will always look out for the best interest of my child. Having said that, you need to at least attempt to discuss this behavior with his father. I'm not suggesting you accuse his father of ANY wrong doing or even mention that it's worse when he comes back from his fathers house. I'd be more likely to approach it by asking him if he's noticed this type of behavior, and suggesting that the two of you come up with some strategies to counteract it. That way at least neither party is put on the defensive and both of you are consistent in your expectations and consequences for this type of behavior.
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