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Originally Posted by calilivchick
Agreed. You're smart about school (if you got into a university, you have to be), so be smart about the rest of your life too. If he's controlling now, get out! Control now can lead to abuse later. Speaking from indirect experience.
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Originally Posted by mandy
who says he's controlling and who says she's letting herself be controlled by him? she's voiced one thing her bf dislikes and all of a sudden, he's controlling?
maybe that from your side stems from your indirect experience...but you shouldnt go around thinking that way. sure, control from either side of a relationship is bad, but not all men who voice their dislikes to you are controlling. just some friendly advice  |
I never said he IS controlling, I said IF. Whether or not she feels he is controlling is up to her, I was just giving advice IF she feels he's controlling.