I would suggest focusing on improving yourself everyday, because that is something you actually have control over. I don't see how you can be happy worrying about things you can't do anything about.
Also, to reiterate what others have said... confidence is great because people will often assume the best of confident people. Like most traits, if you don't have it, then fake it while you pick it up. You will find that you become what you portray in many cases.
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