Don't get me wrong everyone. I've always had an adventurous sex life with my husband, and I did feel very comfortable telling him what I enjoyed. However, I have to say that a part of me felt a little uneasy because he is my best friend. I couldn't even tell you when or why it started. I just know that the few people I've been with since (we're seperated) I feel completely uninhibited. Maybe that's because I'm a lot more experienced with things and I like to have control. My last partner often said 'wow, you come across so prim & proper but ...'. I wouldn't say that I'm pretending to be someone I'm not either, because I am who I've always been. Sorry off the track here, but that's how I personally feel towards this subject.
As for anal, I agree that it's probably more common. I don't actually discuss this with any of my gf's but just from what's posted around, I'm sure it is quite a regular part of people's sex lives these days.
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ciao bella!
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