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He may have lied in the first place in order to avoid confrontation with you, because he knew you'd get mad/upset/angry. That shows (a) immaturity, because he couldn't deal with the consequences of his actions, and (b) guilt for doing/thinking what he did/thought about. The difference between his maturity level and the maturity with which you're handling this shows that he is probably not the guy for you, at least not right now. I would advise not making any major life changing decisions involving him right now... don't move in with him, don't move away with him, don't get engaged/married, don't mingle your finances with him, etc., etc.
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Don't trust anything that can bleed for a week and not die. Oh wait, that's me... nevermind... you can trust me. 
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