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Your scenario could be the case Lasereth, but it sounds like she went through a lot of emotional pain in her last relationship, and the thought of getting so involved again so soon probably scares her. In her own mind, she may simply not be ready yet to start getting an emotional attachment again...
Depends I guess. If it turns out "I'm getting too attached and I'm not ready" actually means shes going to actively date other people in the meantime, then I would definitely think hard about sticking around (and getting more attached yourself) as her possible fall-back guy.
If it were me, I'd be fine with being real friends, if she is really serious about that. Friends are always a good thing. But I'd keep myself open and seeing other people, and would not set myself up for the let down Lasereth mentioned by investing more emotionally right now then she is willing to reciprocate to you.
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