It does look as if you are so full of anticipation and nerves about the first tiem that it is affecting your hormones..its understandable if you think about it!
it once happened to me when i was with a guy..and he said to me
'you know after all this waiting to take you i dont think that i can!'
i ask why
he says 'i am just too overcome with emotion and its affecting me!'
i understood...and me understanding made him excell the next time!
maybe speaking to her will help
