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Okay this lady friend of mine and I have been fooling around for a while now but we have not had sex. Last night I slept over but nothing happened that night, but in the morning when we woke up she was grinding her ass into my crotch and I was standing at full attention. Anyways we kissed and fooled around a little then I got a condom and we were going to have sex. Everything was fine, condom went on no problem. Then when I went to insert my little soldier into her it wouldnt go in... I was a little confused so reached down to grab it and I wasn't even errect anymore.

I was still turned on and she was kissing me and it was all feeling great, but no response from my man. She didn't seem to mind and just grabbed onto my and we just cuddled for about 20 minuits or so before we had to part ways for work. She knows how I feel about her and knows how turned on I get by her. A simple kiss on the neck or a rub of the leg and I am standing at attention... and then this! I have no idea what happened.

Now when I talk to her I feel like I have failed somehow. I honestly feel terrible, its like I don't work properly or something. I am a healthy 21 year old male so blood flow and all that jazz works just fine. But yea, this has been making me feel like complete shit all day, I just feel so usless.

I am curious if this has happened to anyone else or anything. I don't know what to do. I am going out with her again tonight and I know she wants to have sex with me, but honestly I am terrified that this might happen again. Seeing as it would have been our first time I was worried about cumming too fast or something, but nothing like this even entered my mind. I used to always say little dirty things to her all day to make her smile but I just couldn't today, before they rang true because I could actually do them... now if feels like I am a big imposter if I were to even say anything sexual to her.