Great - I just posted a similar thread elsewhere, so this has been a huge help.
Hubby & I seperated 1.5years ago, but I'm living in limbo. We have a <3yr old daughter he we both adore.
Myself - tried keeping busy, but it's really hard. I know it's the best thing to do, but I get depressed and just want to go and hide under the sheets. I never use to want to be alone, but theres been times where I sit back at night and think, this time to myself is great. The thought of him dating freaks me out. Can't get away from him because he calls twice a day to speak to our little girl.
It's harder when you have that tie (daughter)
Just try and spend time with family and friends - don't cut them off as I did. I'm slowly reconnecting and it's the best thing for me. Unfortunately, most of my friends are in steady relationships or married, so that makes it a little difficult and sad at social events (if I decide to go)
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ciao bella!
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