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About the thing with the looking at asian porn...
Porn is fantasy, pure and simple. It's something naughty, voyeuristic, and it gets the tiddily bits excited. Part of that fantasy is looking at things that aren't real, and would probably never happen. Hentai is a good example of this. So's all those porns where the pizza guy comes over and ends up having a three way with two twins in a sorority house!
Again, COMMUNICATION. One of the best parts about porn is variety- you can find porn of anything, any body shape, any hair color, any fetish, any position, any place, any time, ANYTHING! Remember that what visually excites one person isn't necissarily what that person wants when they are in a relationship/have sex. If your BF loves you, loves having sex with you, and provides a supportive, nurturing enviroment for you within your relationship, then what turns him on visually is simply that- his visual turn on. I find lesbian latex fetish porn hot as hell, but I don't want to knock fetish shoes with two other girls who happen to be lesbians!
TALK to your boyfriends and your SO's ladies! Women have so many hang-ups about porn, and I've found that in 99% of relationships, none of what is going on in the woman's head about porn is really happening! Watching porn doesn't mean your SO doesn't want to have sex with you, doesn't find you beautiful or sexy, and it certianlly doesn't mean he wants to have sex with someone else. Make an effort to talk with your SO about porn, and discuss how you feel and how he feels about it. Talk about your sex life, talk about how you each like sex, what you'd like to try, books you'd like to read. Realize each other's full sexual potential, do it together, have fun in the process!
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