Porn = normal, unless you're an evangelical Christian. Then again, I'd be willing to bet that even some of them sneak a peek, now and then.
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(I went to an evangelical university and the school tried to ban all on-campus computers from going to websites with sexual references... didn't work.)
At the very beginning of my relationship w/ktspktsp, I didn't understand porn very well. Then again, I didn't understand much of anything very well, so we both had a lot of explaining to do.
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But it took less than a year of honest talking, going back and forth, exploring our sexual relationship and what turned each of us on... and I think I'm much healthier for that, now.
I do look at porn (when I have the time!!) and enjoy the "good" kinds (usually female-produced, but not always), and I'm not talking about soft porn here. I like it XXX most of the time, nothing spared!
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We both enjoy knowing that the other person has been masturbating lately (because we are in a long-distance relationship). We have watched porn together and apart, and I feel it has not impacted our relationship negatively whatsoever, as long as we are open and honest about it.
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